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Saturday’s Ceremony and COVID 19.

6/16/2020

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I was remiss with mentioning the precautions in place to follow the health guidelines and ensure a safe environment for our community and their families. 

The Pipe Ceremony: A basket of sanitary wipes, tissues and hand sanitizer will be passed with the Pipe. Disposable gloves are available for those concerned about holding and passing the Pipe. Be certain to pick up a pair before taking your place in the circle for the ceremony. It is your choice how you choose to participate. 
  • There is ample space in the barn to support the 6’ recommendation; however, when the Pipe is passed you will get closer than 6’; therefore, you may want to bring a mask. 
  • Everyone needs to smudge their personal body and everything they take into the Sacred circle. (This includes what you sit on and the blanket for your lap.)
  • Generally, we sit close to the Earth by sitting on a blanket or cushion. If you need more support, your lawn chair may be used. Depending on the number of people, it may take an hour for the ceremony to be complete, so consider what is most conducive for your physical comfort.
  • Smoking the Pipe is optional; simply holding the Pipe and speaking your prayers is just as powerful.
  • When your prayers with the Pipe are complete, please use a sanitary wipe to clean the entire Pipe. (If you are wearing gloves, simply hand the cleaned Pipe to the next person.) If not, with the wipe still in your hand and around the Pipe, pass it to the person to your left. Once they have received it, use the hand sanitizer, and then pass the basket of sanitary items and matches/lighter.

Potluck: In addition to your own eating utensils, bring a serving spoon to use with the various dishes others bring, and, of course, your lawn chair. There will be a washtub for cleaning your dishes after the meal. Again, use your personal discrimination and bring any sanitary methods you use to stay healthy. While we will have what is listed above, there may be others items for which you are comfortable.  

Fire Ceremony: If case of inclement weather, we will forgo the fire, and return to a circle in the barn.  With the assistance of the drum, we will do a dreaming. In preparation for this portion, consider what your heart would like to bring forth in your life and community. Call to the energy of the Summer Solstice to help you reflect on and realize what you need to do to meet your long-term goals and honor what feeds your heart. The summer solstice is the highest point of energy for the year and is represented by the elements of fire, passion, will and drive that can help catapult you toward your goals.  If there was ever a day to honor all the love, light and pleasure of our existence, it’s the summer solstice.  
Remember to RSVP by noon on Friday. Looking forward to sitting in ceremony on this Summer Solstice evening. 
    

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Seeking to Understand

6/10/2020

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   The Gift of Storytelling offers both the one telling the story and the one listening the glorious opportunity to grow. While most of us have similar life experiences, no two people have complete understanding of precisely how a story will be interpreted by the another person.   Very much like watching a debate, those in attendance may literally hear the same words and have a completely different perspective of what was said. The skill needed to expand our understanding is to simply listen, without adding our own interpretation as they are telling the story. In most cases, this is quite a challenge since it is almost instinctive to begin interpreting what the person is saying and even more, to begin "painting a picture" of their words. The problem begins when we fill in the rest of the story while the storyteller is still speaking. 
    Seeking to understand someone requires active listening rather than active head chatter. To develop active listening, try telling the "personal interpreter" in your head his/her's job is simply to remember the details of the story. And, be kind to that personal interpreter, because most of the time it merely wants to identify with the speaker in order to assist the one speaking with whatever story they are sharing. Unfortunately, often the personal interpreter wants to tell their own story; either to shift the focus to them, or to their story they may feel has more relevance or is more important. Of course, the later does little to understand another person; rather, it creates a separation and rarely offers the opportunity to build a meaningful relationship.
    As we move through the current situations before us, now would be the perfect time to practice really listening; to really hear what emotions, concerns, frustrations, excitement, or funny situation someone is sharing. When the person is done with their story, re
flect back to them what you heard. Doing this provides the speaker the opportunity to clarify whatever you heard that was different than they intended.
   This is how we will truly begin to understand others, and ourselves. While we may be very much a like, we still have our own sacred way of viewing life. What an enriching opportunity to  learn a new perspective that may deepen our understanding of another human being, who, like each of us, wants to be seen, loved and valued. We really are more alike than we are different, and with respect and trust, relationships can be expanded into a new paradigm that just might change the world!  
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    Vicky Kelm Williams

    I find people absolutely fascinating!

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